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Cambodia International Women's Day Safe House

Interview with Theavy Bun

Theay Bun is 35 years old and was born in Battambang, Cambodia, in 1982 and managest he Safe House in Battambang financed by the NGO AVEC. Since 2004 Theavy has been doing humanitarian work. She is a very special woman and with her potrait today,  the International Women’s Day 2018, we would like to start a series of interviews with strong women. Aside from MeToo and other appeals for solidarity, it is these strong women who do make a difference in this world – for women and men! We feel honored that Theavy agreed spontanously and on very short-notice to answer our questions for the following interview:

How do you remember your school days ?

I started school immediately in the aftermath of the brutal Khmer Rouge regime and during my first three years of school the city was still being bombed by them. Stemming from a very pool family who had suffered during the war, school was extremely important to me and I was a very diligent and motivated student. I had to wear the same school uniform for four years and zipper it lacked made me feel embarrassed every day at school. Immediately after finishing school, I started working to help my parents and to build a future for myself.

Why did you choose a career in charity?

I have always been in contact with extremely poverty stricken families who were fighting for survival in a very difficult environment immediately after the genicode by the Khmer Rouge regime. Already then deep inside of me I felt the desire to help these widowed or abandoned women who struggled daily to feed their numerous children. Already at a young age, I realized that poverty can only be fought by education and access to schools.

What was your dream job as a child?

I wanted to become a doctor in order to take care of my parents.

How many children do you take care of ?

In a certain sense I am the mother of 38 children who live permanently in the Safe House. The youngest child is three years old and the oldest is already 24 years old. This is also the reason why I hardly ever take some time off and my private life is very limited. Luckily enough I share this enormous responsibility with my husband. We are happy being able to offer these abused children a safe haven. We are aware of the fact that we are very demanding «parents» but their future is important to us and most of them are diligent and motivated students.
I am also in charge of the schooling of approximately 70 children coming from a very poor background with mostly illiterate parents. We take care of the schooling for these children to provide them with the best education possible.
Another 20 children living with a family member in various villages are also supported by us to enable them to pursue a higher education.
Last but not least, there are another 10 young women living in the Safe House and doing their tailor apprenticeship for a year.

A typical day in your life?

Every day I arrive at 08 :00 am at the Safe House where I spend the whole day until 08:00 pm – seven days a week. I manage the Safe House and take care of the youngest kids living in the Safe House. I eat all the meals together with the kids as it is important to spend time together and it is also a possibility to have a chat with the older children – these are very beautiful bonding moments!

Your biggest professional achievement?

I am quite humble when it comes to naming achievements – dealing with and educating so many children with traumatic experiences always has its setbacks. We constantly have to work with them to help them to overcome injuries they suffered in the past. What comes to my mind first is that I succeeded in saving a baby and her older sister from the hell where they used to live in and to work with them on a daily basis sothat they can come to terms with their trauma. Most important is that they have rediscovered their smiles.

Your biggest challenge?

Changing the mentality of children who are not motivated and who do not want to make an effort to create a better future for themselves. And of course, to help those abused girls to recover and to find their smiles again.

Your biggest defeat ?

Not being able to help a child escape from his difficult situation and failing to free a couple of young girls from their difficult environment.

What do you like most in your work?

To teach children good values and to see them grow and become life – affirming again. I am happy to watch them leave for school and that most of them are planning to pursue further education. I know the history of every single child, all those incredible tales of woe they had to gro through every day   before coming to us. Their success in their new lives is also our success – the success of the NGO AVEC and its donors, which it is very proud of – and so am I!

Your biggest wish to Santa Claus?

That Cambodian men going to Thailand to work do not leave their wives and children any more. And that people in Cambodia will stop disposing their garbage on the side of the roads – then Cambodia would be even more beautiful.

Your hobbies?

Gardening, embroidery and studying French.

I love working in the garden as this calms me and allows me to sort my thoughts and to forget about my problems. This is my kind of meditation.

Theavy Bun

Theavy – always with a big smile.

Cambodia Education Empowerment Safe House

Tailors’ Workshops

On November 16th, 2017, the graduation ceremony for the tailors took place already for the third time. A total of 15 graduates proudly accepted their diplomas which were handed over by their teachers together with Theavy Bun.

The girls proudly accepted their diplomas – some of them very timidly.

Following the ceremony they presented themselves in their graduation works, i.e. their beautiful yellow and orange dresses.

Thanks to Theavy who has undertaken a major effort, 10 out of the total 15 graduates have found a job. One girl will open up her own tailor’s shop and two will continue their education. Two young women have to take care of their respective families. Bravo Theavy!!! The project was completely financed by Fondation Le Solstice – an impressive project!

Cambodia Children Safe House

Sunglasses Day

This day was initiated by The Vision Council – an association to promote the optical industry – and celebrates the importance of wearing shades to protect the eyes from the sun’s harsh ultraviolet (UV) rays.
People have always protected their eyes from glaring light – from protective masks and slit glasses to tinted glasses.

Slit glasses

Slit Glasses

Tinted lenses without UV filters protect from glare but may even increase the damage done by the UV-rays. Pupils widen in the darkness and thus more harmful rays can get into the eye.

The perfect sun lenses are polarized and the size of the glasses reduce stray light. Moreover, sunglasses are considered fashion accessories and therefore have to meet the wearer’s expectations in terms of fashionability and image.

The historian Karin Hartewig in her 2009 book «The veiled look – small cultural history of sunglasses» has given a deeper insight into the cultural development of sunglasses.

Sunglasses became relevant only with the beginning of mobility, as motorists and wood class tourists of the railway needed protection against sun, dust, smoke and airflow. The former «goggles» were finally able to experience a first boom as body cult, sunbathing and outdoor sports in the open air became ever more popular. For more than 50 years this classical piece of disguise allows more or less well known people to market themselves.

Many celebrities never leave home without. For many of them, the sunglasses turned into a trade mark. Could you imagine Karl Lagerfeld, Heino, Jackie Onassis, Udo Lindenberg or Andy Warhol without their signature glasses? But also heroes of the everyday world love this cool accessory.

Be it fully mirrored, jet black, gradually tinted, xxl-formatted or classically pilot shaped – sunglasses are more than a protective tool – they shield the wearer from unwanted paparazzi pictures and from showing their emotions on the red-carpet and demonstrate power over other people.
Sunglasses are light protection, cult object and trademark. It is said that the Roman emperor Nero (37– 68 AD) liked to watch gladiator fights with emeralds. These, however, appear to have worked rather like mirrors.

In the 15th century, tinted lenses had already been used to protect the eyes from glare. But only around 1752 did James Ayscough begin experimenting with tinted lenses in spectacles. These were not «sunglasses» as that term is now used; Ayscough believed that blue- or green-tinted glass could correct specific vision impairments.
In the 18th century spectacles with yellow, green, blue or red lenses were popular. Early spectacles also had protective caps on the side made from leather or tissue in order to protect from lateral scatters. In the 19th century, ophthalmologists disputed about the best color. Today, we know that brown, grey and green lenses hardly distort the color perception. Differently colored lenses distort the color perception and subsequently the brain takes some time to neutralize the changed color perception.

Sunglass Lens Colors (Tints)

Lens colors affect how much visible light reaches your eyes, how well you see other colors and how well you see contrasts.
Dark colors (brown/gray/green) are ideal for everyday use and most outdoor activities. Darker shades are intended primarily to cut through the glare and reduce eyestrain in moderate-to-bright conditions. Gray and green lenses won’t distort colors, while brown lenses may cause minor distortion.
Light colors (yellow/gold/amber/rose/vermillion) : These colors excel in moderate-to-low-level light conditions. They are often great for skiing, snowboarding and other snow sports. They provide excellent depth perception, enhance contrasts in tricky, flat-light conditions, improve the visibility of objects and make your surroundings appear brighter.

In the course of the 19th century, protection of dangerous UV rays has gained more importance. The first lenses with effective UV-filters were developed as early as 1905 by Josef Rodenstock even though the damaging effect of the UV-rays was proven only in 1908 by the Swiss Alfred Vogt.

In 1937 American Bausch & Lomb launched the brand Ray Ban. The first patent was based on a prototype for pilots of the US-Army created in 1936 and known as «Anti-Glare». Hence also the name for this model «Aviator». The collection was further developed and in 1952 the Wayfarer was launched. The design was inspired by «a mid-century classic to rival Eames chairs and Cadillac tail fins.» According to design critic Stephen Bayley, the « distinctive trapezoidal frame spoke a non-verbal language that hinted at unstable dangerousness, but one nicely tempered by the sturdy arms, which, according to the advertising, gave the frames a « masculine look ».

Numerous celebrities wearing the Wayfarer helped to build the myth around them: Buddy Holly, J.F. Kennedy, Bob Dylan or Tom Cruise to name just a few. Who does not remember Audrey Hepburn as Holly Golightly longingly looking into the Tiffany’s shop window on New York’s 5th Avenue wearing her big Wayfarer sunglasses?

As one of the first luxury products, original Ray-Ban-sSunglasses featured very early on some sophisticated characteristics that made it easy to distinguish them from copycats. In the meantime, this system has evolved. Today, e.g. a diamond symbol on the right lens means that the lenses are coated in a special way and are snatch-resistant as a diamond. A P or P3 stands for polarized lenses.

The Sixties saw the introduction of photochromic lenses due to an invention by Stanley Donald Stookey and his collegue William Amistead. These lenses darken on exposure to specific types of light of sufficient intensity, most commonly ultraviolet (UV) radiation. Another big invention was the introduction of tinted plastic lenses for sunglasses by Rodenstock in 1986.
The 1980s extended the considerable attention that Italian sunglasses producer Persol had always paid to technological innovation and care for its products. Indeed, it took part in several expeditions to test its lenses at high altitudes and in the desert, verifying their performance in extreme conditions, and to experiment with the use of innovative materials. Alpinist Enrico Rosso wore Persol glasses in 1989 as he climbed up to the Himalayan summit of Kun (7077 m). With him was ophthalmologist Paolo Gugliermina who looked after ocular testing. Upon his return he reported that non of the men on the expedition had suffered eye problems thanks to protection from Persol lenses specifically designed for the mission.

Due to the high sun intensity in Cambodia, it is very important to sufficiently protect the eyes.
Consequently, it comes in very handy that the Caveng Optik in Ilanz, Switzerland,  Company sponsored sunglasses for the kids of the Safe House in Battambang. Thank you so much for your donation! The kids are proudly wearing the sunglasses and were happy to get them.

Cambodia Children Safe House

Swimming Day

This day is dedicated to health and physical activity and of course it is a lot of fun. On this day everybody should enjoy the pleasures of summer. And how better than to do some laps in the nearby pool? Swimming is good to train endurance and to keep up physical fitness. Especially children love this kind of physical activity. This is the reason why Daddy Patrik takes « his » kids as often as possible to the Battambang public pool. The children love the splashing around in the pool and have a very good time. Plus, they learn to coordinate respiration and movement which is essential for safety in the water. And the water resistance helps to build up muscles..

Cambodia Empowerment Safe House

Sewing Machine Day

This day honors the invention of the sewing machine. The sewing machine took the labor out of hand sewing. The first working sewing machine for shoemakers was conceived in 1790 by the Englishman Thomas Saint who filed a patent for his invention. Even though his patent was considered very progressive, his construction plans were never transformed into a sewing machine.
Only in 1874, William Newton Wilson reconstructed a sewing machine based on Saint’s plans for the London Science Museum. The first machine was made entirely from wood.
In Battambang sewing machines are of significant value as they can provide a potential source of income. The current class of tailors at the Safe House’s vocational training is already in their third year! This year, 18 girls are attending the vocational training to become tailors which takes one year to complete. Thanks to this vocational training a lot of girls have already found a job. Moreover, the Safe House has already paid for three tailors’ workshops, i.e. a sewing machine, mirror, fabric and haberdashery, to enable the girls to work autonomously in their home villages.

Right now, the Safe House owns 17 sewing machines for the vocational training and 5 sewing machines for the small production.

Pattern drawing has to be learned and practised. This skill is an integral part of the vocational training for a tailor and students also have to learn to work with precision.

Cambodia Children Safe House

World Doll Day

Today is World Doll Day. The World Doll Day was established in 1986 by a woman named Mildred Seeley, to celebrate not only dolls, but caring, love and the people offering it, in general.
Mildred Seeley (1918 – 2001) was an avid doll collector and a dollmaking entrepreneur. She is also author of numerous books about doll collecting and doll making. She became known internationally for her collection of French dolls which sold for $1.8m in 2002.

Our little doll owners in the pictures definitely do not care about the financial value of their dolls but they enjoy playing family with them and nurturing and loving them as their own babies – or just brushing their hair.

Cambodia Children Food Safe House

No Dirty Dishes Day

This is a day that gives us all a break from the regular daily routine. There are two options for this day. You can eat all meals out. Or, you can use disposable paper plates, cups and silverware.

It is nice to have a choice. In the Safe House in Battambang they do not have a choice but to clean huge piles of dirty dishes three times every day. Plus, the dish washing is done in a very traditional way.

 

Cooking – just as dish washing – is a community affair. For parties or big meals, everybody has to give a helping hand. Vegetables and fruit are cut and prepared in very large quantities. There is also a very big demand for garlic. At least they can be sure that – even if only occasionally – vampires are banned from the premises.